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| TED |
Ted used a hook as a left hand for a long time.
After a while, he discovered that his insurance would cover a more
realistic hand and had one made. For some reason, though, his work
as an accountant just kept wearing hands out. “I
guess I’m just active,” Ted laughs. “The first one only lasted
a week or two.” He was sent to a practitioner in another state for a new hand,
but it only lasted a month. The next hand just lasted a couple
of weeks. Finally, though, he found Aesthetic Prosthetics, and
that hand has been another story. Says Ted, “I think Stefan is
a true artist. He’s more than an artist. It takes more than just
art to make this. It has to also endure. I’ve had it now [for six
months] and I only see one pin-type flaw. I think that’s really
saying something.”
But the durability does not compromise
the appearance of his hand. “It’s more realistic than anything
I’ve ever had. I feel very comfortable with it going out in public.
I have to tell people it was a prosthesis. It gives me a certain
amount of confidence that I wouldn’t have normally. I feel very
confident about my appearance.”
A realistic hand that does not look good, Ted says, draws more attention
than does a hook. A hand that looks almost right attracts people’s
attention. With his new hand, “I could be sitting at a dinner table
and have both hands on the table and they’d never know it’s a prosthesis.”
Ted says that he meets new people and forgets to tell them that his
left hand is missing. If they notice that he doesn’t move one hand
as much as the other, he says, “I forgot to tell you–I don’t have
a hand!”
What advice would Ted give someone who has recently lost a limb?
“I would advise them to see Stefan. In fact I did that two days ago.
A guy lost his leg just below the knee and I showed him my hand.
He was very encouraged. You could see the glow come over his face.”
Ted told the man, “With the right therapy you could be standing six
feet tall again.” Ted says that he hears a lot of hype about modern
technology and prosthetics, but he pronounces his Aesthetics Prosthetics
hand “the best I’ve seen.”
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| SIMONE |
Simone marched on after she lost first one leg and then
the other. She wore out many prostheses and dozens of pairs of tennis shoes
and flats. But for about twenty years, she had not worn heels. She imagined
herself in thong high-heeled shoes and legs that matched her African-American
skin. Once Simone saw samples of Aesthetic Prosthetics’ work, she knew
where she would get her dream legs.
What was different from her old prostheses?
“Everything,” she says. “The color is exactly my skin color,” which
she says is a big difference from what she was used to. She explained that
her previous choice had been between very pale, a reddish brown (“nobody
is that color” she says emphatically) or almost black. Her new legs
“have a whole depth.”
“It makes me feel like a woman,” Simone says, a smile in her voice.
“Until I was able to wear heels again and wear my color, I didn’t realize
how much was taken from me. I never felt like a woman in my other life.”
Before she had her Aesthetic Prosthetic legs, she just couldn’t dress up
and have “the things that are important to girls.” She did not want her
amputations to be the first topic of conversation with everyone. Now, “If
I wear something short above my knees people think I have on some sort
of crazy cool boots. Or they think maybe it’s just a bandage around my
knee.”
But these legs aren’t just for admiring looks. “I walk my dog 45
minutes twice a day,” she says, and the only time she is out of her prostheses
is when she is asleep. Simone’s friends all know that she has two prosthetic
legs, but the artistry of the illusion moves their focus to other aspects
of her personality and her life.
About losing limbs, Simone says, “Life’s not over.
There is so much that can be done. It may not be fair. It’s not fair that anyone loses a
limb. It’s okay to be angry. Where do you go from there? Do you sit in
your house and be negative and self-hating and no one wants to be near
you, or do you get out and live life again? And now we can do that. I don’t
want anybody to be stuck like that.” She muses that people who are new
to the idea of using a prosthesis worry about falling. She gives them tough
love, forged through her own experiences: “You fell when you had two feet.
You’ll get up and learn what you are trying to do better. I want people
to see through the negative stuff and see the positive stuff. There’s nothing
to feel sorry for.”
Simone summarizes her life: “We have wonderful things and people
like Stefan are just making them better. My legs are better than Heather
Mills’. Much better!”
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| JOSE |
Jose, a hairstylist, could not get anyone to make prostheses
that fit right for his three missing fingers. The fingers would be too
big, too loose, too tight, or the color would be completely different from
that of his skin. Since his hands are right up in his customers’ faces,
both their appearance and function matter to his livelihood. He has been
a customer of Aesthetic Prosthetics now for some time, and he says that
it makes it possible for him to continue to work in his trade.
His Aesthetic Prosthetics fingers, he says, are like single prosthetics
for each finger. “Since they started working with
me, I always tell them how I feel and what should be different. I’m a hairstylist
and I use my hands every day. This last set is very, very good.” Jose knew that he could
more easily hold a pair of shears if his prosthetic fingers were slightly
bent and a little smaller and thinner. Aesthetic Prosthetics staff listened
to his needs: “They keep improving every time they make a new set.”
Jose knows a lot of people who are handicapped, and wishes he knew
how to approach them to tell them how much a good prosthesis could improve
their lives. “Some of those people do not know that they have a choice
to have something done to look better. If people notice that you are handicapped
they keep staring at you.” Jose says they do not stare at him any more–since
no one can tell that three of his fingers are silicone! “People do not
really know about all these choices that they have,” he muses.
To Aesthetic Prosthetics, Jose says: “You know, you guys are my
heroes. You saved my life.” Jose doesn’t feel that everyone would be
comfortable having him work on his or her hair otherwise. “My hand is not
very good-looking without the prosthetics. People would be afraid of me.”
Jose’s hand looks so natural that customers rarely notice that prosthetic
fingers are making them look beautiful.
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| VIOLA |
“What was important to me,” Viola says, “was to return
to independence. And in order to do that, I needed to have the tools to
work with. And that tool was my prosthesis.” Viola radiates many things–hope,
energy, optimism–while barely even acknowledging that she has lost a leg.
Viola does not want anything to slow her down. “To be fortunate [and]
blessed enough to have [a prosthetic leg] that was the same shape and color
as my leg, a leg of color– it was just fantastic. So when I wear dresses
it is not obvious.” She marvels at the fact that there are subtle freckles
on her prosthesis that match the ones on her leg exactly.
Viola moves quickly away from the topic of her prosthesis to enthuse
about her business and volunteer activities. It is clear that she does
not accept anything but full-out effort from anyone, least of all herself.
Among many other things, she runs a business tutoring students “for excellence,”
in particular for better performance on the SAT and PSAT exams. She swells
up with pride when she talks about a very successful student who recently
invited Viola to her high school graduation. Viola is also looking into
getting a PhD to top off her existing degrees, and is looking forward to
being an active volunteer in the fall Presidential campaign.
She harrumphs that the most necessary thing to get back into the
swing of life after losing a limb is motivation and a refusal to give in
to complacency. Viola declares that it’s important to expose people to
what is possible, and to talk about it– to show them a reason to hope,
and to show them what they can achieve if they aspire to it. Meanwhile,
she’s far too busy to let a little thing like a prosthetic limb break her
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A realistic hand that does not look good, Ted says, draws more attention
than does a hook. A hand that looks almost right attracts people’s
attention. With his new hand, “I could be sitting at a dinner table
and have both hands on the table and they’d never know it’s a prosthesis.”
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“It makes me feel like a woman,” Simone says, a smile in her voice.
“Until I was able to wear heels again and wear my color, I didn’t realize
how much was taken from me.
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Jose knew that he could
more easily hold a pair of shears if his prosthetic fingers were slightly
bent and a little smaller and thinner. Aesthetic Prosthetics staff listened
to his needs: “They keep improving every time they make a new set.”
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